The Significance Of Hair In Native American Culture
Jan 04, 2019
There are many teachings and practices in our tribal cultures that are significant to who we are as Native people. One of many things important to our cultural identity is, our hair. Our hair is considered sacred and significant to who we are as an individual, family, and community.
In many tribes, it is believed that a person’s long hair represents a strong cultural identity. This strong cultural identity promotes self-esteem, self-respect, a sense of belonging, and a healthy sense of pride. As part of the practice in self-respect, we are taught to take good care of our hair through proper grooming. In preparation for ceremonies, we take great care in the grooming, styling, and ornamentation of our hair. Our hairstyle and ornamentation are guided by the values of our family and tribe. It is a form of creative self-expression that reinforces our connection to our family, tribe, and Creation. Some tribes will use two braids, while others will use three. Some families will paint their hair depending on the ceremony or their family’s distinction. Women and men will adorn their hair with fur wraps, woolen wraps, feathers, fluffs, and bead work for war dancing and ceremonies.
How we relate to our hair is a constant reminder of our connection to our culture and a distinct worldview grounded in the sacredness of relationships. Braiding a child’s hair is the beginning of establishing an intimate and nurturing relationship. My mother used to braid my little brother’s hair every day before school. When my grandfather died, my mother cut my brother’s hair. She expressed the sadness she felt because she could no longer sit with him and braid his hair. It was a special time of bonding for the two of them.
At pow-wows, it is common to see family members and friends brushing and braiding hair for each other. It’s a beautiful way to bond and a powerful way to reinforce the sacredness of relationships. There is a teaching about the symbolism of the braid, itself, that reaffirms this practice. It is said that single strands of hair are weak when tugged on, however, when you pull all of the hair together in a braid the hair is strong. This reinforces the value of the family and tribe along with our connection to all of creation.
When I was about 5 years old, my grandfather first told me about being forced to cut his hair when he was carted off to boarding school, and I am sure I heard this more than a dozen times as I grew up. But as I got older, he would tell me more about his experience and what it meant to him. Eventually, he told me his hair was cut in an effort to strip him of his culture and identity. Cutting his hair was their way of showing dominance over him through forced assimilation. He said that every time his hair was cut, he would cry, and every time he would cry, he would be physically punished. Unfortunately, being forced to cut our hair was a common practice in many institutions and schools across the country, and is still occurring as recent as 2018.
His story is important because we are taught as children that we don’t cut our hair unless we have experienced a significant loss, like the death of a close family member, traumatic event or significant life change. Tribes have different teachings about the value of hair and how to care for it. In our family, we are taught that our hair is a physical extension of all our thoughts, prayers, dreams, aspirations, experiences and history. When we cut our hair, it represents the end of something that once was and a new beginning. When we do have to cut our hair, it is never to be thrown away, but rather, burned with sage or sweetgrass in a ceremonial way. When our hair is burned, all of our thoughts, prayers, dreams, aspirations, experiences, and history rise to the Creator to be properly taken care of. We are then guided in the direction for our prayers to be answered. Throwing our hair away is a form of personal disrespect. So, when my Grandfather had his hair cut off and thrown away, his tears were of deep grief, confusion, helplessness, and shame. It was against everything he had ever been taught, along with grieving the loss of everything his hair represented to him. When this cultural practice was common in most Native communities, it was easy to recognize when someone in the community was grieving or experiencing a significant change in their life, because their long hair was no longer.
With our hair embodying so much of who we are, boundaries are important. Touching someone’s hair without permission is disrespectful in the Native community. Some even find that asking permission is a form of disrespect, especially with children and elders. This is not something to take personal, it’s our way of protecting ourselves from the energy of someone we know nothing about.
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Photo Credit: Esperanza Califas Tomeo
Child in photo: Willis Tomeo
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I am the product of a biracial union between my black mixed race father and mixed race mother. When Alex Haley’s Roots TV miniseries was aired, it prompted me to know my ancestry. My [deceased] father worked for Amtrak. One day on a trip from New York City to Miami, FL, I asked him about his ancestors. They immigrated from Liverpool, England, U.K. to the U.S. with a stop in Kingston, Jamaica. They settled in Florida and intermarried with the Choctaw and Cherokee Native Americans. My mother was ignorant about such things; I went to my Jewish grandmother for that. She was of Sephardic Jewish and Irish ancestry. Growing up my mother never taught [me] the importance of caring for my hair. My hair is naturally curly yet, to fit in with white kids at school, she straightened my hair. It reached my waist. Had I worn my natural curly hair, for sure I’d be ostracized for not fitting in. When I turned 12, she turned its care to me…knowing I knew anything about hair care. It was ruined trying to emulate white fashion models in magazines like Vogue, Harpers Bazaar and Glamour. Then the Jheri Curl was popular; I got one and my hair grew.
While the Jheri curl grew out, my hair began to break. Not having any sense, I continued using a chemical relaxer for 20 years. In 2004 while living in Florida, my relaxed hair grew past my waist. Unfortunately, it began to break off again. In July 2008, I met and fell in love with my husband who noticed my damaged hair. After we married in 2011, I was desperate—turning to the internet for help. I went to my then amazon.com account and looked for books on how to regrow my natural curly hair. I found a wonderful book Curly Like Me by Teri LaFlesh. It was a Godsend, the author’s experiences with her biracial hair resonated with me. I immediately began following the steps she outlined and each month I cut 1/4" to 1/2" of relaxed hair until it was all gone. I made the mistake of watching way too many youtube videos of different women with natural curly hair. What I didn’t realize is that their hair regimens for their curls was different from mine. No two curlies are alike. My hair began to mat. I went back to wearing my natural curly hair in 2012. Long hair was not my focus, healthy hair was. Once it was pampered and healthy, only then could I focus on growing it long again and retaining its length. I’m very happy to say that the journey was worth it. My natural curls hang past my shoulder blades now and I put it in 4 twists, pinned up with the ends out of the air.
Unfortunately, my biracial curls do not react well to braiding. Twists work much better. I’m now researching how important hair is in Native American and Chinese cultures. I will NEVER cut my hair, use heat on it or set foot in a hair salon again. Children must be taught the importance of wearing their hair proudly…whether it’s straight or curly or in between. Some women with straight hair try to wear it curly and curlies want to straighten theirs. I’ll never understand that and realize that people must respect the cultural differences regarding hair.
I am not native, but am currently writing a high school paper about the oppression directed towards Native Americans and one of them were forcing males to cut their hair in the 20’s. I knew that you guys’ hair meant something to all of you, but I wasn’t educated on what. This really helped me understand your sacred beliefs. thank you :)
I’m half native (the other half unknown as i’m adopted) and recently i’ve been driven to let my hair grow long. It wasn’t until recently that i decided to look up maybe why i was being driven to grow it long. I now know why i’ve been drawn to it, and it makes me really happy that somehow my soul knows my roots without me knowing.